WHEN YOUR BOO IS YOUR BFF...

I've always had this belief that relationships are more fun when you're dating your friend. Love is easy that way.  It becomes even easier when your spouse becomes your bestfriend.

He knows your flaws and loves you even the more for it. He can't seem to do anything without consulting you first. You both are like five and six.

Trivial issues no longer get in the way of your happiness instead the focus at this point is the big picture of planning a future together .

When your boo is your best friend....

• He practically knows how you think

You complete each others sentences. He can tell what you're thinking from just an eye contact.
He's never at a loss on what to buy for you during birthdays or general celebrations because he already knows your taste

• You share everything 

You share experiences with each other. If something occurs and he/she ain't with you at that point in time, you can't wait to call them up and recount whatever happened.

 If a guy hits on you, he's the first person you share it with and he doesn't get jealous or paranoid because he understands and trusts you. He's also the first person you go to when you need advice or help concerning anything

• You are practically family 

He keeps you abreast with happenings in his family. You practically know every family member by name, location and occupation.

You communicate often with them that you feel like a part of the family. When they call him, they definitely must ask about you

• You prefer his company to that of your closest female friend

You would rather spend your day watching something as boring as football with him than spend it shopping with the girls.

You even enjoy doling out the latest gossips to him

• You show up to events together. 

He's your plus one. If he's unavoidably absent at an event, people notice it when you walk in alone.

• You're in constant communication 

Even when apart, you know what's going on with him. You can hazard a guess as to where he would be at a certain time and what he would likely be doing and your guess is most times right.

He's comfortable talking to you 24hours of the day. He doesn't feel bothered whenever you want to exchange little bit of gossip
           

• You are friends with his friends

You visit them along with him. You've got their contacts too and communicate with them. When he's with them alone they enquire about you

• You don't air your dirty laundry outside

You've got a way of handling issues when a third party is present. When you've got arguments and someone else walks in, you comport yourselves in such a manner that no one would guess that a fight is going on

• You are comfortable with him

 You can chew with your mouth open, belch loudly, pick your nose, bite your nails and  even fart when he's present without feeling embarrassed.

You can share your meal or drink with him. You've got no inhibition sharing same cup or spoon. He splits the bills with you, sometimes pays most of the bills without you asking

• He's well aware of your flaws

Hes aware of your weakness and doesnt use it against you. He nows and understands your flaws perfectly and doesnt judge you

There are little or no secrets between you both. You know his favourite meals, drinks, movies, novels, hobbies. Most times you even share same habits, like and dislike same people, have same outlook concerning issues

• He's your number one fan

You're his wallpaper, screen saver and display picture. He doesn't hesitate to like your pictures, comments, tweets on social media.

He proud to flaunt you any day, anytime and anywhere to anybody. He's female friends are well aware of their boundaries because you've been made known to them

• You are his future

When he proposes to you, it doesn't come as a surprise because he talks about the future with you all the time. He makes plans for your wedding even before placing the ring on your fingers.

He sees you as his partner for life so he gives you the ring for formality because you both know where it's headed already before he goes on bended knees.


So the question is, is your boo actually your BFF? ❤